It has been a while since my last post but I am back and ready for some girl talk. I want this blog to be a place where women can come read good material and have the chance to interact with others. I want this blog to be interactive I want you to feel comfortable enough to comment and lets chat about whats going on in life. It's all about girl talk....men you are more than welcome to chime in. I will be posting every Sunday and I look forward to having great conversations with you all!
Today's topic is all about Yes people I am closing in on thirty...and I am freaking out just a little.lol OMG I look at myself in the mirror and realize Courtney where in the hell did the time go? You are almost 30 freaking years old! I look around and think geeesh time really waits for no man, my cousins whom I witnessed being born are grown and or in high school, everyone around me is either getting married or having children and I get asked the same few questions every time I go to church or see people I haven't seen in a while. Not to mention it is time for my 10 year high school class reunion...STFU! As for these three haunting questions that I am sure all of the women my age get asked (1) Are you married? (2) Do you have children? (3) What are you waiting for? Ladies, I'm sure you are rolling your eyes as you read this thinking ugh i get those questions all the time. My question to you is...How do you answer them? Here are my responses:
(1) Are you married? Me- No, Why not do you have a boyfriend? Me- Yes, What is wrong with your boyfriend? Me- Hell i don't know I'm wondering the same thing as you. You probably could get a better answer if you ask him!
(2) Do you have any children? Me- No fortunately I don't. I am not mentally or physically ready to me someones mother right now!
(3)What are you waiting for? Me- waiting on Mr. Right to come sweep me off my feet and give the life of my dreams like they say in the fairy tales.
Listen, I am not trying to be a jerk with the answers that I gave but people act as if we are not already thinking about the monumental milestones that are suppose to be happening in our lives and that are happening in the lives of ones around us. We don't need constant reminders that we are complete failures for not being married or have children by now. lol just kidding about be failures of course.
Personally I am in a serious committed relationship and I could definitely see marriage in the future. If he doesn't realize that he has an amazing woman in his life that he wants to commit his life to then it is his loss not mine. We should not be the ones hounded because were not married, how about hound these men and ask whats wrong with them and why they haven't done the honorable things expected of them. I am old school I will be someones wife and the mother of their children and in that order.
Yes I am knocking on thirty's door but trust me I am focused and doing exactly what I should be doing: I am working on myself as a woman and being comfortable in the skin I'm in. I'm out here trying to live my dreams, be successful, buy some bad ass shoes, wear super chic clothes and get some damn abs!!!
Ladies don't let others expectations for your life get you discouraged that you are not on the right path. I refuse to allow traditional expectations mold my lifestyle. When the right man is smart enough the time will happen and he will be one lucky son of a .....! Until then I'm content with pursuing the American Dream!
Ladies are you feeling the heat? Have you started getting these questions everywhere you go? How do you respond? Or how did you respond before these things happened to you?
Lets chat! Leave comments in the comment section below.
Today's topic is all about Yes people I am closing in on thirty...and I am freaking out just a little.lol OMG I look at myself in the mirror and realize Courtney where in the hell did the time go? You are almost 30 freaking years old! I look around and think geeesh time really waits for no man, my cousins whom I witnessed being born are grown and or in high school, everyone around me is either getting married or having children and I get asked the same few questions every time I go to church or see people I haven't seen in a while. Not to mention it is time for my 10 year high school class reunion...STFU! As for these three haunting questions that I am sure all of the women my age get asked (1) Are you married? (2) Do you have children? (3) What are you waiting for? Ladies, I'm sure you are rolling your eyes as you read this thinking ugh i get those questions all the time. My question to you is...How do you answer them? Here are my responses:
(1) Are you married? Me- No, Why not do you have a boyfriend? Me- Yes, What is wrong with your boyfriend? Me- Hell i don't know I'm wondering the same thing as you. You probably could get a better answer if you ask him!
(2) Do you have any children? Me- No fortunately I don't. I am not mentally or physically ready to me someones mother right now!
(3)What are you waiting for? Me- waiting on Mr. Right to come sweep me off my feet and give the life of my dreams like they say in the fairy tales.
Listen, I am not trying to be a jerk with the answers that I gave but people act as if we are not already thinking about the monumental milestones that are suppose to be happening in our lives and that are happening in the lives of ones around us. We don't need constant reminders that we are complete failures for not being married or have children by now. lol just kidding about be failures of course.
Personally I am in a serious committed relationship and I could definitely see marriage in the future. If he doesn't realize that he has an amazing woman in his life that he wants to commit his life to then it is his loss not mine. We should not be the ones hounded because were not married, how about hound these men and ask whats wrong with them and why they haven't done the honorable things expected of them. I am old school I will be someones wife and the mother of their children and in that order.
Yes I am knocking on thirty's door but trust me I am focused and doing exactly what I should be doing: I am working on myself as a woman and being comfortable in the skin I'm in. I'm out here trying to live my dreams, be successful, buy some bad ass shoes, wear super chic clothes and get some damn abs!!!
Ladies don't let others expectations for your life get you discouraged that you are not on the right path. I refuse to allow traditional expectations mold my lifestyle. When the right man is smart enough the time will happen and he will be one lucky son of a .....! Until then I'm content with pursuing the American Dream!
Don't mind me just being SOOOOOOO UN-BOTHERED!!! LOL
Lets chat! Leave comments in the comment section below.
