What would you do without your BESTFRIEND?

This post is about one of the most amazing women in my life, she is none other than my bestie Connie. She is no longer just a friend she is my family, my sister, my most trusted confidant. We have been inseparable since I met her back in 2004 during our freshman year at North Carolina Central University on the 9th floor of Eagleson Hall.

Wow it seems so long ago, I'm getting old! lol The first few times we spent together I knew this woman would be in my life forever and now May 2013 we are thick as thieves. Have we had our ups and downs...of course that is in any friendship but I can tell you that it has made us closer than ever before. Check out Thelma & Louise below:

 

Let me tell you guys the definition of a best friend or at least what my best friend is to me! My bestie Connie is my ROCK she is the only person who truly knows me inside and out. She is the first person I talk to in the morning and the last person I talk to before I go to sleep. She is the person I go to when my insecurities are disabling my potential, when my man ain't acting right, when I'm excited, happy or sad. She is my one in a lifetime true Confidant! 

 

I'm pulling a few lines from a movie or two so don't judge me it is the easiest way to show you guys the love I have for this chick. lol  I carry her in my spirit, I pray for her more than I pray for myself! She makes my life complete, she is the ying to my yang, she is the woman who will stand before myself and God when I vow to love a man for the rest of my life, she will be the godmother of my children. She will forever have a large chunk of my heart and the bond that we share can never be broken.

 

On a lighter note we do some silly things to like...add our names in our favorite songs, have the most inappropriate conversations, eat whole Crabs like two grown men, call each other on every commercial break of our favorite shows and I pick on how OCD she is.

 

The moral of this post is that my best friend is my biggest source of inspiration, bravery, courage, love, friendship, happiness and joy. She is one of my biggest cheerleaders always telling me how proud she is and supporting and helping me with any and everything I need. She tells me the truth even when I don't want to hear it or accept it and she loves and accepts me for ME! Now this is what you call a best friend.

 

 

We all want that confidant that  you  were destined by God to spend the rest of your life with. I am so blessed that God blessed me with her, he knew exactly who to send to make that part of my being complete and I am forever grateful for her.

 

My man is also  best friend but there is nothing like being able to have a conversation with a woman that knows exactly how you feel. It is one of the most liberating and refreshing feelings in the world.

 

Embrace..Love...Acknowledge your best friends they are one of life's most precious gifts! 

 

Until next time Continue to live life with passion and purpose!!!